Interesting thing....
The other day, I went to a focus group study to give my opinion on issues that concern same gender loving males of color. (s/n I blame author James Earl Hardy for my now using the term, "Same Gender Loving") I found it to be very insightful and relaxing. I myself don't have friends that are homosexual. I choose not to hang around with a lot of them, especially the ones of the younger generation due to a lot of negativity and ignorance that the vast majority brings. They have what one of the participants called "The Mean Girl Syndrome". They talk about each other, have their little cliques and pretty much tear each other down instead of banding together and building each other up. I digress. I was in the lobby waiting with six other men, and we were having an intelligent conversation with out it turning overly sexual or speaking or dwelling on negativity. (Of course this is possibly due to the fact that at 27 I was one of the youngest ones there. I believe anot